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Boundaries, Priorities, and Finding Work-Life Balance (HBR Work Smart Series)

Say no to a culture of constant work.

We often equate our productivity with the number of hours we spend working. But do we really need to work endlessly, through weekends and during vacations, to be seen as stars? To find a healthy balance between our personal and professional lives, we need to make space for ourselves, define what we value most, and set goals that take those values into account.

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The Myth of Sleep Deprivation and Success

Sleep is chic and podcasts are rife with successful people who brag about protecting theirs. But I find leaders' actual behavior often conflicts with protecting sleep for their teams! Many of us can summon a "successful" person who seems to run on just a few hours of sleep per night. Maybe it's a glamorous startup founder who boasts about their sleepless hustle and sends 3 AM emails. A politician who claims to only need 4 hours. The message is clear - sacrificing sleep is the price of success.

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Living Your Values to Overcome Anxiety

I'm writing this to you from 30,000 feet over the Atlantic Ocean on Mother's Day. Flying solo today feels aligned with my values of providing for my family and being reliable professionally, even though it also triggers some guilt and anxiety.

Our values give life meaning and guide our decisions, especially when facing challenges. In this newsletter, we'll explore how tuning into your values can help you overcome anxiety and rumination.

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One Simple Skill To Make Work Better For Everyone On Your Team

Consider this: You, as a manager, have more impact on your direct reports’ mental health than their spouses do. Take that in for a second.

It’s Mental Health Awareness Month and so many leaders and managers want to make their organizations better for their people’s mental health. It’s a complex issue that truly intersects every line of business. Business leaders ask me: I want my employees to report less anxiety and depression at work. What should I do? I love that people with power and influence are asking this question. There are so many places to start (see my P.S.) but here’s one piece of great advice I can give you if you’re a leader concerned about mental health at your place of work.

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Latest in CHIEF: It’s Not a Crutch. How to Transform Your Anxiety Into a Leadership Superpower

If you’re leading a team of four or more, chances are, at least one of your colleagues is coping with anxiety. Or maybe, that person is you. High-achieving individuals are particularly prone to anxiety, which also is twice as common among women as it is among men. Anxiety has long been a taboo topic in the workplace, especially in leadership circles. In a conversation with Chief Members, author and entrepreneur Morra Aarons-Mele makes the case that the stigma must end — now.

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Mind Matters: How to Make Work Better for Everyone’s Mental Health

Throughout May, Thinkers50 teamed up with the Silicon Guild to support Mental Health Awareness Month in the US and Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK.

In the first of four live, online events, we focused on how we can make work better for everyone’s mental health. Featuring Rita McGrath, a top 10 Ranked Thinker since 2013, and Radar Thinkers Poornima Luthra and Andrew Barnes, this illuminating discussion explored practical ways that managers and leaders can improve the health and productivity of their workforce.

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Managing Anxiety By Giving Yourself What You Need

When you counsel a friend who’s having a tough time I bet one of the first questions you ask is: "What do you need right now?" But when's the last time you asked yourself, "What do I need right now?" My guest Emma Seppälä, Ph.D. is a scientist who studies how interventions like breath-based meditation affect our mental health and social connectedness.

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Latest in Harvard Business Review

Morra explores several key ways organizations haven’t gone far enough in implementing a culture of well-being. She also makes five key suggestions on what they can do to improve the mental health of their employees.

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Alcohol and Anxiety: A Common Pair

Today's newsletter focuses on alcohol use and anxiety. Many people use alcohol to avoid anxiety all the time. I certainly do. Nearly every social function I attend has booze. It's become such an accepted lubricant that we forget what a powerful drug it is.

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Get To Know The Family Ghosts In Your Leadership

Do you feel the need to make everyone happy, all the time? Can’t stand a quiet moment and feel compelled to make a joke? How about making sure everyone has coffee or water before the meeting? These behaviors could be legacies from your childhood showing up at work. This week in the newsletter MIT Sloan School of Management Professor Deborah Ancona walks us through common “family ghosts” that show up in executives she coaches.

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Power Up For A Better Work Day

When I think about my typical day on endless Zooms, I can’t imagine a life more disconnected from my body. That doesn’t feel good to me. Add in stressful meetings, angry moments, and anxiety, and I often feel trapped in my body. Something's stuck inside, and it can't get out. Can you relate? Emma Seppälä, Ph.D. says that emotions are "energy in motion."

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"CPR" For Times When Work Makes You Feel Sick

In my recent poll 87% of you said you’d gotten physically sick because of another person or situation at work (n=1170). It happens all the time, and while the easy advice is to find another job, that’s not always realistic or even always advisable. Sometimes you can make a difficult situation better and sometimes you can’t. So how do you work when work is making you feel sick?

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The Anxious Achiever wins a Bronze Medal in Leadership at the Axiom Awards

The Axiom Business Book Awards are the largest and most respected critical guidepost for business books in today's new world of publishing. These prestigious and competitive awards are presented in 25 business categories and serve as the premier list to help readers discover new and innovative works. Axiom Award-winning books will help readers understand changing trends and technologies affecting the business world and point out opportunities in our complicated new economy.

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